二十世纪女人

实际上也是一个新型的社会流行的体现：人们渐渐认识女权主义，一个时代里的新潮。我能理解妈妈，她智慧，但不想给儿子灌输女权思想，overthinking有时会毒害一个人享受生活的能力，女权主义也有属于它的虚伪。而且她也代表来自“旧时代”面对“新思想”的碰撞与磨合，不管接受与否，anything always changing! 20世纪的人们纵情玩乐，是对空虚的抵抗，但在party里只更显得孤独，过度依赖于外在刺激，用物质填满自己。这也是消费主义时代下的影响，个人对心灵空虚的找寻。感觉这个电影里值得探寻的还有很多，很棒的电影！！

（电影一半有感写下这段感悟，在电影临近结束时被剧中角色从口中说出，这种感觉好棒啊！有种和作者有心灵的connection的感觉！）

二十世纪的女性，更多机会，自由，不确定性。到底什么shape我们？不知道！

I think I’m still finding something! Maybe love, maybe myself! Maybe the finding will through my whole life never been ended, just like the mom did! No matter what, I’m alive!

12:49 "you know having your heart broken is a tremendous way to learn about the world."

13:02 “Do you think you‘re happy？Like...as happy as you thought you'd be when you were at my age.” ——"Seriously? you don't ask people question like that." ——"You're my mom." ——"Hahahah... Especially your mom. Look, wondering if you're happy is a great shortcut to just being depressed."

14:23 "Pretty music is used to hide how unfair and corrupt society is." ——"Ok,so they are not very good. And they know that, right?" ——"It's like that they got all the feelings. And they don't have any skill. And they don't want skill because it's interesting. What happens when your passion is bigger than the tools you have to deal with it? It creates this energy. This, this...this is rock. Isn't great?"

17:44 "I mean everyone is doing it." ——"So you just went along with it." ——"It looked fun." ——"That's just dumb. Why would you do something so stupid? Just following along?"

18:20 "You scared the hell out of me. Why did you hurt yourself like that?" ——"Why do you smoke yourself to death?" ——”Why are you fine being sad and alone?“

19:40 "I think history has been tough on men. I mean that they can't be what they were. And they can't figure out what's next." ——"What're we talking about?" ——”Men?" ——”I think history and men. I mean who're your heros nowadays? A brunch of privileged drug addicts?"

24:58 ”I think that Jamie's energy is very... unstable“ ——”Well, you're right. Then there's an energy crisis, maybe that plays into someway.“

36:26 "Of all the misconception of love, the most powerful and persuasive is the bielf that falling in love is love. Or at least one of the manifestion of love. Love is supposed to be a feeling that you feel. People say they're falling in love but they're not actually falling in love. It's a fake connection that you feel with someone. And marriage should never happen."少有人走的路

42:28 "You will get through this. You will do it. This is the really hard part. And then what happens is there is hard part and then it gets better, and then it gets hard again, but never mind. ”

47:32 "This is just my opinion. I think being strong is the most important quality. It's not being vulnerable. It's not being sensitive. It's not even...Honestly, it's not even being happy. It's about strength. And your durability against the other emotions."

48:27 “There are bunch of things, that I think my life would have been better if they were have been around when I was a teenager. So I'm hoping, that if you listen to them ,now, you will be happier and more realized person than I could ever hope to be.“

54:00 "My mother called it compartmentalization. Apparently, I do it a lot."

1:08:44 "How are you dealing with everything?” ——"Whatever you think your life going to be like, just konw, it's going to be anything like that."

1:24:04 I am gregarious and interested in others and I think intelligence. All I ask is to get to konw people and to have them interested in konwing me. I doubt whether I would marry again and live that close to another individual. But I remain invisible. Don't pretent for a minute, as you look at me that I am not as live as you are and I do not suffer from the category to which you are forcing me.

1:27:46 “There is a growing disrespect for government. The schools, the news media, and all the institutions. This is not a message of happiness or reassurance. But it is the truth and it is a warning. It is a crisis of confidence. What we can see in the crisis in the growing doubt of the meaning of our own lives and in the loss of unity and purpose for our nation. Too many of us now tend to worship, self indulgence and consumption. But we have discovered that owning things and consuming things does not satisfy our longing for meaning. We are always believe that we are a part of great movement, of humanity itself , involved for the sesearch for freedom. We are at a turning point of our history, the path leads to fragmentation and self-interest, down that road lies a mistaken idea of freedom. It is a certain route to failure.”1975.7.15 吉米卡特 信任危机演讲

1:46:02 "Were you and dad ever in love?" ——"Sure... or maybe I was just I thought it is supposed to be in love. Or I was scared I'd never be in love. So I just pick the best solution at that time."

不得不说妈妈还挺酷的，上飞行学校，买IBM、Xerox、GM的股票，科技先锋本锋。

It was a movie talking about femalism as well as junvenile troubles.

With all the wondering and struggling during the teenagehood, the personality was shaped.

When the parenting or education emphasize more concentration on individuals rather than standardizing academy, well-round characters could be developed...

That's so called civilization, and we still have a long long way to go.

Love Bening!!

时代是所有人的时代，个人只是洪流里的微小构成，这一刻，欧亚大陆的一边在腥风血雨，我在另一边吃穿住行悉如往常；可时代留在每个人身上的印记又太深刻了，没有疫情的日子像是一场回不去的梦，战争的延宕与埋在邻里的结盟危机也告诫着自己对出国与否的未来规划要未雨绸缪，毕竟，时代是所有人的时代，是我无法因为悲剧会产生就可以任性逃走的时代。

了解一个年代的最好方法就是了解生活在这个年代里面的人，人物志式的叙述手法或许让剧情线显得略微破碎。但这与那个不安的年代和那些生而破碎的人大概也差不多。 不完整的家庭，混乱的朋克音乐，尼克松的信任危机，都是70年代最好的时代注记。但这些混乱，都没有让jamie的成长变得更慢，或者变得更快，他就像活在20世纪70年代的每一个人一样，尽情享受着这种chaos给他们带来的片刻欢乐。